Category: THRIFT FINDS

• First Impressions Matter

  Posted at 5:30 am by The Honeybee, on September 12, 2018

  Hello Honeybees,

  

  3 seconds, yep 3 seconds is all you get to make a first impression. In 3 seconds the other person forms an opinion about you based on your appearance, body language, your demeanor, your mannerisms, and how you are dressed. Admit it, when you meet a person what’s the first thing that you notice? It’s probably what they are wearing. We are all guilty. We can’t always control what the others think but we can put our best foot forward.

  Depending on the setting this first impression can be the difference between getting the job or not getting the job. The first impression could mean making that connection that could help elevate you to the next level.

  I know we can’t ALWAYS be on 10 ALL the time but when we know that we are walking into certain situations we know that we should bring our A game.

  

  This week my blogger friends and I are talking statement jackets as we transition from summer to fall. Bianca, www.curvaceouslybee.com ,  Komal, www.komalmeansdelicate.com ,Desiree, www.mochadivas.com  Melissa, https://reverberatingdaily.com/  Michelle, www.elainemichelle.com 

  

  Jacket: gifted to me over 7 years ago, Top: Ann Taylor, Pants: Thrifted, Shoes: TJ Maxx, Bee Pin: Gifted

   

  I didn’t get a picture of it but the top under this jacket is sleeveless. So on the way to my meeting I won’t faint in this Memphis heat, but once I get there I can put on my jacket for a more polished look.

  

  The yellow of the jacket screams Summer but the lightweight quilted texture feels “Fallish”. I added a bee pin in an unexpected place for a little whimsy & to stay on brand.

  What do you think of my statement jacket? Too much or just enough? Will I make a positive first impression?

  Let me know what you think!

  

   

  Beewisdom- First impressions are the most lasting- English Proverb

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• Spring, Is That You?

  Posted at 6:18 am by The Honeybee, on March 7, 2018

  Hello Honeybees,

  It seems like January took a long time to move out and February played the “I don’t know what season it is” game. I am so over cold weather. I am over wet weather.

  

  Cold weather really makes me hibernate but I am committed to getting out. I need all the God given vitamin D that I can get.

  Memphis usually gets snow in February so the January snow this year threw me off. The back & forth weather of February was enough to keep people sick, especially during this horrible flu season. The winds are enough to keep me looking like an old lady with a scarf wrapped around my head to cover my ears. But I found a way to keep the wind out and stay stylist.

  

  As we venture into March it really is starting to feel like Spring in Memphis. We are still dealing with some rain and wind and some chilly days.  It’s kind of hard to know how to dress but of course we figure it out. To help prepare for Spring I have linked up with some of my favorite local bloggers to share some Spring looks.  Bianca at Curvaceouslybee, Ashley at Big World Huge Style, Chasity at Sweat In Mascara, Sherill at Sherill SMILEs, Desire at Mocha Divas , Faith at Faithfully Yours, and Almetria at Fit and Finally Free. Hop over to their blogs to see what they are wearing for Spring. We are sharing Spring trends all month long. Make sure you follow all our blogs so don’t miss anything.

  

   

  Shirt- Mens Izod-Goodwill, Pants-Old Navy, Jacket- Harolds-Goodwill, Shoes-Nine West, TJMaxx, Head wrap-Thrifted

   

  I can’t wait until Spring when I don’t have to bundle up to go out. I can’t wait to feel the warm breeze of Spring and sun on my skin.

  So Spring please come quick and stay awhile

  

  Beewisdom-In winter I plot and plan. In spring I move

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• Respect YOUR Journey

  Posted at 7:30 am by The Honeybee, on February 1, 2018

  Hello Honeybees,

  Have you looked at someone you deemed successful and thought….. How did they do it?  You’re thinking, wow that was quick or they became an “overnight” success. Yep, I’m raising my hand because I am totally guilty of these thoughts. Who wouldn’t want to be an “overnight success”. But when you take the time to dig a little deeper and yes you must dig deeper, you find that there is rarely an overnight success story.

  

  In fact, most overnight successes can take an average of 7-10 years or more

  That’s at least 7-10 years of being in the game.

  Being consistent.

  Working hard, even when no one is watching.

  Sometimes its late nights & early mornings.

  It could be missing out on some hang time with friends.

  

  Whatever the case may be if you want to be successful you have to do the work and put in the time. The journey can be long and hard but if you want it bad enough you will do what needs to be done.

  RESPECT YOU PROCESS

  Your success doesn’t have to look like someone else’s success. Your success looks like YOU.

  

  Top: GAP- MidSouth Outlet Thrift    Pants: Merona –Target   Shoes: Tahari – TJ Maxx   Necklace: Target   Camera: Canon EOS Rebel T6- Amazon

  Photos: Sherill

  

  Beewisdom- People think I’m an overnight success. No. It’s just that you all found me overnight- Leslie Jones

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• Thrifting With A Diva

  Posted at 6:54 am by The Honeybee, on January 4, 2018

  Hello Honeybees,

  

  The day after Christmas most people hit the stores for the after Christmas sales. It’s the best time to stock up for all things Christmas for next year. This year I decided to go thrifting instead. I had it all planned out but when I woke up on December 26^th the temperature was 31 degrees. That made me change my mind or so I thought… I posted my dilemma on Facebook and my favorite thrifting diva @divinedivastyle heard the call and got me out of the house.

  

  We met at Mid-South Outlet.  Goodwill is usually my go to thrift store but Mid-South Outlet is closer.

  All yellow tag items were 50% off so we were on the hunt for those first. Of course the first 3 items that I picked up did NOT have yellow tags but that didn’t stop me.

  

   

  When shopping at Mid-South Outlet be aware that they do NOT have dressing rooms & once you buy it it’s yours. For stores like this it’s important to shop in the right clothes.  A fitted tee, leggings and slip on shoes if possible & a small cross body bag to hold your phone, money & keys, that way you can try things on over your clothes. You won’t get a true fit but you will have a pretty good idea if it’s something that you can work with.  The aisles are also tight they have these baskets to help.

  

  There were some treasures that we left behind because they either didn’t fit or they were out of budget. YES, we had a budget.

  

  Yes this is a real Lilly Pulitzer size 4.

  

  

  My limit for today’s trip was $20 and I stayed UNDER budget. I purchased 5 items. 1 skirt, 2 tops and 2 pants. My total…..$17.38.

  I’ll share my haul in future post.

  Thanks @divinedivastyle for being my thrift shopping buddy.

  

  

  Beewisdom- Thou shalt not pay retail!

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• Flourish

  Posted at 9:29 am by The Honeybee, on December 28, 2017

  Hello Honeybees,

  

  2018 is right around the corner are you ready? What goals have you set for the new year?

  

  Since 2014 I pick a word that guides me throughout the year. When choosing a word I am very careful because I want to set the right intention. So far I’ve used…Peace, Brave, Manifest and last year Opportunity. All of these words have in fact had an impact on the year that I used them. The year that I was brave saw me end a very important relationship (still trying to figure out how to write that post). 2017 brought me numerous Opportunities both in my career & personal life, even as late as last week. There have been plenty of opportunities this year for me to step outside of my comfort zone and to make moves towards my next level.

   

  

  The word for 2018 is…….

  FLOURISH

  Verb– (of a person, animal, or other living organism) grow or develop in a

  healthy or vigorous way, especially as

  the result of a particularly favorable environment.

   

  Noun– a bold or extravagant gesture or action, made especially to attract the

  attention of others

   

  I am ready to grow in all areas of my life.  I am ready to make the right moves to attract the right attention, especially with the blog.

  Let’s FLOURISH together in 2018!

  

  Skirt- Mossimo (Goodwill)

  Jacket- NY& Company (Goodwill)

  Top- Ann Taylor (Goodwill)

  Booties- Impo (TJ Maxx)

  

  Beewisdom-  When the vision is clear, the results will appear. Keep your mindset positive as you work your plan, flourish, and always remember why you started.  Germany Kent

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  My first job Saturday for #teammax was putting Pay It Forward cards in each basket. I didn’t do this task long, there some younger kids (elementary school age) that were getting so much joy out of this task that I moved on to something else : Yesterday someone blessed me & my family. This week I will make it my business to pay it forward. I already have today’s PIF ready. It’s really more like a thank you for someone who is stepping in to help this momma out. : How do plan to Pay It Forward this Christmas season?

  During this season I have been posting pictures of me & members of my tribe. It feels so good to be in the presence of strong women who I love and who love me. : I met this lady Freshman year of college. Her heart is so big. She has always been the most mature of the Wolfpack, keeping us all in line with her words of wisdom & calm spirit. I’m honored that we spent the day volunteering with our sons.

  I had to sneak this picture because, well teenager 🤷🏽‍♀️ 😂 : Spent this morning packing baskets for those in need. I tagged along with my youngest as he was part of the @smithandnephew scholars group at @reachmemphis : Y’all I am so tired. We had to be there at 6 am & we packed baskets until 11:00. Check out my stories to see some of the fun.

  I met this beautiful lady in 9th grade at @iccsmemphis and her beautiful spirit has been shining in my life every since. : She is one of the strongest & smartest women I know and I am so glad that she is a part of my tribe. Love your tribe people 😘

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